古代拜年說(shuō)的話
新年是一個(gè)有著特別意義的時(shí)刻,意味著一年的結(jié)束,新的一年全新開(kāi)始。為了慶祝新年的到來(lái),除了歡聚一堂外,大家還會(huì)相互道祝福、贈(zèng)好禮。那么下面一起來(lái)了解下古代拜年說(shuō)的話。
古時(shí)農(nóng)歷元旦,拜年賀節(jié)是一項(xiàng)主要活動(dòng)。這天清早,臣僚們要到朝廷向帝王賀節(jié),同族的人要到祠堂舉行團(tuán)拜儀式。最為繁忙的,當(dāng)然還是親朋好友之間的登門(mén)拜年。有的人因種種原因,不能或不便外出,派子女出門(mén)代賀。即便這樣,一些清規(guī)戒律常常使人苦不堪言。于是,至宋代,為簡(jiǎn)化手續(xù),方便使用,專(zhuān)門(mén)用于拜年的賀卡應(yīng)運(yùn)而生。
賀卡最早稱“刺”,又稱名刺、名帖,大約出現(xiàn)在春秋戰(zhàn)國(guó)時(shí)代。《后漢書(shū)·井丹傳》稱井丹“性清高,未嘗脩刺候人。”宗臣《報(bào)劉一丈書(shū)》:“即門(mén)者持刺入,而主人又不即出見(jiàn),立廄中仆馬之間”。前者說(shuō)傳主不送名帖之清高,后者則說(shuō)送帖者見(jiàn)不著主人之尷尬。起初,“削札為刺,止于達(dá)名姓”。寫(xiě)上賀詞,成為一種專(zhuān)門(mén)的“書(shū)面”拜年形式,是宋代及以后的事。在漫長(zhǎng)的發(fā)展過(guò)程中,這賀卡名堂多多。
飛帖迎春。清·甘熙《白下瑣言》:“新歲以紅柬書(shū)名,互相投遞……謂之飛帖!惫湃肆(xí)俗,從正月初一至初五,都稱拜年;初六到十五,稱作拜晚年。盡管如此,但還是強(qiáng)調(diào)早:初一一早。是故,元代馬臻有《至節(jié)即事》詩(shī):“天街曉色瑞煙濃,名紙相傳盡賀冬!彼坪蹩梢哉f(shuō),初一早晨,春城無(wú)處不“飛帖”。
名刺自投。相比于登門(mén)拜賀,自投名刺既表達(dá)了禮數(shù),又省卻了見(jiàn)面的繁文縟節(jié),寒暄客套,雙方都方便。但是,自投,數(shù)量不多還好說(shuō);太多,力所難及。同時(shí),雖說(shuō)是“親自”,以示鄭重,但在世俗看來(lái),不免有失體面。唐代詩(shī)人元鴝重酬樂(lè)天詩(shī)》有云:“最笑近來(lái)黃叔度,自投名刺占陂湖!
望門(mén)投刺。每逢新年,如果上司、同僚、親朋太多,難以一一登門(mén)拜謁時(shí),有錢(qián)有勢(shì)之家,會(huì)派仆人呈送一種二寸寬、三寸長(zhǎng)的梅花箋紙,上面寫(xiě)有受賀人姓名、住址及祝福語(yǔ),代為拜年。明人陸蓉《菽園雜記》載:“拜年……如東西長(zhǎng)安街,朝官居住最多,至此者不問(wèn)識(shí)與不識(shí),望門(mén)投刺……”
親筆手書(shū)。宋代,一些社會(huì)名流,喜歡用親筆手書(shū)的名帖相互拜年。小小名帖,雖比不上巨幅大軸,卻別具一格。于是,名家拜帖,歷來(lái)被視為珍品,每多收藏。據(jù)南宋張世南《游宦紀(jì)聞》記載,其家藏有北宋著名文人秦觀的一份拜帖,上款為“觀敬賀子允學(xué)士尊兄正旦”,下款是:“高郵秦觀手狀”。敬賀正旦,即今日“恭賀新年”的意思。
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非常經(jīng)典有深度的電影英文臺(tái)詞
1.一個(gè)人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風(fēng)景,聽(tīng)陌生的歌,然后在某個(gè)不經(jīng)意的瞬間,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn),原本是費(fèi)盡心機(jī)想要忘記的事情真的'就那么忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福,不是長(zhǎng)生不老,不是大魚(yú)大肉,不是權(quán)傾朝野。幸福是每一個(gè)微小的生活愿望達(dá)成。當(dāng)你想吃的時(shí)候有得吃,想被愛(ài)的時(shí)候有人來(lái)愛(ài)你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in ones hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someones love when you need love.
3.愛(ài)情是燈,友情是影子,當(dāng)燈滅了,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你的周?chē)际怯白印E笥,是在最后可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛(ài)你不是因?yàn)槟闶钦l(shuí),而是我在你面前可以是誰(shuí)。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛(ài)情,要么讓人成熟,要么讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負(fù)重?上,大多數(shù)人的愛(ài)情,都是負(fù)重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,its called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我們每個(gè)人都生活在各自的過(guò)去中,人們會(huì)用一分鐘的時(shí)間去認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人,用一小時(shí)的時(shí)間去喜歡一個(gè)人,再用一天的時(shí)間去愛(ài)上一個(gè)人,到最后呢,卻要用一輩子的時(shí)間去忘記一個(gè)人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一個(gè)人一生可以愛(ài)上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后,你就會(huì)明白一起的傷痛其實(shí)是一種財(cái)富,它讓你學(xué)會(huì)更好地去把握和珍惜你愛(ài)的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年輕的時(shí)候會(huì)想要談很多次戀愛(ài),但是隨著年齡的增長(zhǎng),終于領(lǐng)悟到愛(ài)一個(gè)人,就算用一輩子的時(shí)間,還是會(huì)嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個(gè)人,體諒這個(gè)人,直到愛(ài)上為止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.當(dāng)明天變成了今天成為了昨天,最后成為記憶里不www.dcagu.com再重要的某一天,我們突然發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在不知不覺(jué)中已被時(shí)間推著向前走,這不是靜止火車(chē)?yán),與相鄰列車(chē)交錯(cuò)時(shí),仿佛自己在前進(jìn)的錯(cuò)覺(jué),而是我們真實(shí)的在成長(zhǎng),在這件事里成了另一個(gè)自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that weve all grown up. And we become different.
11.離開(kāi)我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補(bǔ)也會(huì)遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please dont comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾經(jīng)擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬于自己的,不要放棄。已經(jīng)失去的,留作回憶。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Dont give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜歡并習(xí)慣了對(duì)變化的東西保持著距離,這樣才會(huì)知道什么是最不會(huì)被時(shí)間拋棄的準(zhǔn)則。比如愛(ài)一個(gè)人,充滿變數(shù),我于是后退一步,靜靜的看著,直到看見(jiàn)真誠(chéng)的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的愛(ài)是俯視而生,而女人的愛(ài)是仰視而生。如果愛(ài)情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的愛(ài)情是你通過(guò)一個(gè)人看到整個(gè)世界,壞的愛(ài)情是你為了一個(gè)人舍棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前,應(yīng)該一直留有一個(gè)地方,獨(dú)自留在那里。然后去愛(ài)。不知道是什么,不知道是誰(shuí),不知道如何去愛(ài),也不知道可以愛(ài)多久。只是等待一次愛(ài)情,也許永遠(yuǎn)都沒(méi)有人。可是,這種等待,就是愛(ài)情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有誰(shuí)不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發(fā)現(xiàn),它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以為愛(ài)的很深,很深,來(lái)日歲月,會(huì)讓你知道,它不過(guò)很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛(ài),必須和時(shí)日一起成長(zhǎng)。
Is there anyone who hasnt suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that its always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact its very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在這個(gè)世界上,只有真正快樂(lè)的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂(lè)。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒(méi)有感性,就要理性;如果沒(méi)有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個(gè)都沒(méi)有了,她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的愛(ài)情,需要的不是傷心,而是時(shí)間,一段可以用來(lái)遺忘的時(shí)間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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